Having been married for 35 years, I learned early on that if you don't particularly like doing a household task, then DON'T DO IT!! If you willingly choose to do it, then the task will become YOURS! You will own it!! It is possible, however, to undo this catastrophic mistake through pouting, whining, tears, and abstinent behavior! Oh me, Oh, my--a Freudian slip! I meant to say obstinate behavior. But if abstinence works for you, even better!
I'm not sure how long it took to train TC, my adorable other half, but I do so much love my pedestal! Yes! I admit it--I am totally spoiled! In my world, there is nothing better. Let me share my "NOT MY JOB" list with you.
WHAT I DO NOT DO!
What I Do!
I imagine that you're wondering by now what is it that I actually do. I'm on that pedestal remember, so I do anything I want!
In my own world, do I find myself on a pedestal? Absolutely...and think that's where every woman belongs!
Every list will not be the same, but please remember, if you don't particularly like doing a certain task, don't do it. Just say,
IT'S NOT MY JOB!!